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Hexagram 44: Coming to Meet

姤 Gòu

Hexagram 44 of 64 · Heaven over Wind · Wilhelm-Baynes translation

Master Wei Lin

By Master Wei Lin · Updated August 3, 2026

Chinese Metaphysics Scholar

What is Hexagram 44, Coming to Meet?

Hexagram 44, Coming to Meet (姤 Gòu), is built from Heaven (乾 Qián) over Wind (巽 Xùn), and the Wilhelm-Baynes translation reads its themes as encounter, temptation, caution. The classical sources describe it as a pattern in the Book of Changes (易經 Yìjīng), a situation to recognise, not a verdict to obey.

Key Takeaways

  • Hexagram 44 is built from Heaven (乾 Qián) over Wind (巽 Xùn).
  • Its central themes, encounter, temptation, caution, discernment, sit in the Wilhelm-Baynes lineage.
  • The classical pairing matches the hexagram to Black Tourmaline as the meditation stone.
  • Read alongside BaZi, Kua, and Compass School sector mapping for a fuller picture.
  • This is a pattern, not a verdict, the I-Ching frames reflection, not prediction.
Trigram structure
Upper: Heaven (乾 Qián)Lower: Wind (巽 Xùn)Heaven over Wind/Woodencountertemptationcautiondiscernmentunexpected
The judgment

The Judgment

Coming to Meet. The maiden is powerful. One should not marry such a maiden.
The image

The Image

Under heaven, wind: the image of Coming to Meet. Thus the prince acts when disseminating commands and proclaiming them to the four quarters of heaven.

Master Wei Lin's Interpretation

Interpretation by Master Wei Lin, Chinese Metaphysics Scholar, pattern recognition, not fortune-telling

Wind beneath heaven, something unexpected approaches from below. Coming to Meet speaks of an encounter that wasn't planned: an influence, a person, or a temptation that arrives seemingly from nowhere. The I-Ching warns: examine what comes to meet you carefully. Not everything that appears attractive is beneficial. First encounters set the pattern for what follows. What is approaching you, and is it what it seems?

The moving lines

The Six Lines

When a changing line appears in your reading, its text carries special guidance for your situation.

Line 1 (bottom)

It must be checked with a brake of bronze. Perseverance brings good fortune. If one lets it take its course, one experiences misfortune. Even a lean pig has it in it to rage around.

Line 2

There is a fish in the tank. No blame. Does not further guests.

Line 3

There is no skin on the thighs, and walking comes hard. If one is mindful of the danger, no great mistake is made.

Line 4

No fish in the tank. This leads to misfortune.

Line 5

A melon covered with willow leaves. Hidden lines. Then it drops down to one from heaven.

Line 6 (top)

One comes to meet with horns. Humiliation. No blame.

The stone

🔮 Crystal for Hexagram 44

Black Tourmaline

Hold Black Tourmaline while meditating on Coming to Meet. Its energy resonates with the themes of encounter, temptation, caution.

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Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

What does Hexagram 44 (Coming to Meet) mean?

In the Wilhelm-Baynes translation of the I-Ching (易經 Yìjīng), Hexagram 44, Coming to Meet (姤 Gòu), is read through Heaven (乾 Qián) over Wind (巽 Xùn). The classical sources describe its themes as encounter, temptation, caution. This is pattern recognition, not prediction.

What is the Judgment for Coming to Meet?

The Judgment reads: "Coming to Meet. The maiden is powerful. One should not marry such a maiden.", the Judgment is the I-Ching's classical summary of the situation the hexagram describes, and what the present moment is asking of the reader.

What is the Image for Coming to Meet?

The Image reads: "Under heaven, wind: the image of Coming to Meet. Thus the prince acts when disseminating commands and proclaiming them to the four quarters of heaven.", in the classical sources the Image is the elemental picture, the upper and lower trigrams in conversation, that the reader holds while sitting with the hexagram.

What crystal pairs with Hexagram 44?

Black Tourmaline is the traditional pairing for Coming to Meet. The classical Chinese gemology lineage associates this stone with the hexagram's central themes, hold it during meditation on the reading. This is reflective practice, not divination-as-prediction.

How is Hexagram 44 read in BaZi or Feng Shui?

An I-Ching cast is one consultation. The fuller reading, Four Pillars (四柱 Sì Zhù), Kua personal feng shui, and Compass School sector mapping, reads the hexagram alongside the chart. Master Wei Lin's Master Reading section synthesizes the Book of Changes alongside BaZi and the other Chinese metaphysics traditions.

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