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Quick Answer
Muditā Bhāvanā is the Theravāda sympathetic-joy practice, the third of the four brahmavihāras. Drawn from Buddhaghosa's Visuddhimagga IX.84-87 and Gunaratana's Beyond Mindfulness in Plain English (2009), the practice celebrates another's joy and meets the resistance honestly. The phrase trains the heart, not the other way around.
Tradition and source
Tradition
Theravada Buddhist, the third brahmavihāra
Classical source
Visuddhimagga IX.84 to 87
Modern source
Bhante Gunaratana, Beyond Mindfulness in Plain English (2009), ch. 9
What this practice does
Muditā is the brahmavihāra Westerners find hardest. The classical near enemy is hypocritical agreement (saying you are happy for someone while quietly burning); the classical far enemy is envy. The practice is to feel the resistance, name it, and offer the phrase anyway. The phrase trains the heart, not the other way around.
How to practice
The instructions below run 10 to 20 minutes. Read through all the steps before you begin. The practice is not the goal; you are.
Bring to mind someone whose joy you can easily celebrate, a child, a friend whose success delighted you.
Offer phrases inwardly: may your happiness continue, may your good fortune deepen, may you flourish.
Notice resistance if it arises, that is the practice working, not failing.
Extend outward to people you find harder, those whose success is complicated for you.
Close with all beings, may all who taste joy taste more.
What to notice, and when to stop
Best for which inner weather
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Difficulty and duration
Duration
10 to 20 minutes
Difficulty
intermediate
Category
Loving-Kindness (Brahmavihārā)
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These practices complement Muditā Bhāvanā (Sympathetic Joy), same category, or matched to overlapping inner weathers.
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