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Quick Answer
Upekkhā Bhāvanā is the Theravāda equanimity practice, the fourth and culminating brahmavihāra. Drawn from Buddhaghosa's Visuddhimagga IX.96-124 and Gunaratana's Beyond Mindfulness in Plain English (2009), the practice teaches care without leaking energy into outcomes you cannot control. Stoic ethics arrived by a different route.
Tradition and source
Tradition
Theravada Buddhist, the fourth brahmavihāra (the culmination)
Classical source
Visuddhimagga IX.96 to 124
Modern source
Bhante Gunaratana, Beyond Mindfulness in Plain English (2009), ch. 10
What this practice does
Upekkhā is the fourth and culminating brahmavihāra. The classical near enemy is indifference (the cold version that does not care); the far enemy is greed and aversion (the grasping version). The practice is to care without leaking energy into outcomes you cannot control. Stoic ethics arrived at the same teaching by a different route. Two ladders, one roof.
How to practice
The instructions below run 15 to 30 minutes. Read through all the steps before you begin. The practice is not the goal; you are.
Sit with the phrase: may all beings be at ease with things as they are.
Bring to mind a person you love deeply. Hold them with: their happiness depends on causes I cannot fully control.
Bring to mind someone whose suffering you cannot fix. Same phrase.
Bring to mind the world. Same phrase.
Rest in the spacious quality this produces.
What to notice, and when to stop
Best for which inner weather
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Difficulty and duration
Duration
15 to 30 minutes
Difficulty
advanced
Category
Loving-Kindness (Brahmavihārā)
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These practices complement Upekkhā Bhāvanā (Equanimity), same category, or matched to overlapping inner weathers.
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